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You can see it above in the "To: rdindex.prob@janyce.com" .The "rd" is root diggin and "index" is the Genealogy home page & index. However, this is only a clue, as many visitors report problems from a page other than the one which they are having problems.

With that in mind, this was our reply:


    At 10:26 PM 12/2/97 -0800, you wrote:
    >Nearly a dozen sites I clicked, said not on this server. Is something
    >wrong? Thanks.

      (We were tempted to say, "No, it's supposed to work that way! ... but we held our tongue.) Instead we did our best to help her and replied:

    You don't say which of our 134 pages you are talking about. Assuming you are talking about the page you sent your e-mail from (The Root Diggin' Dept. Index page), then one of several things could be the problem:

    1) Our server was temporarly down after you downloaded the index page.

    2) You hand-copied the address to you browser address bar incorrectly (instead of letting the button send you there).

    3) You had previously requested the page(s) when the server was temporarly down and your browser remembered the "NO DNS" - if that is the problem click on the reload / refresh button to clear the memory of that particular page.

    4) You were not on our domain. You can check by watching the address bar of your browser; if it doesn't read www.janyce.com , then you were on someone elses pages and you need to contact them.

    If our server was down you should get a "host not responding" message. If the internet was down you should get a "NO DNS" message.

    We recommend trying to get a page and failing for three days in-a-row, prior to reporting a page problem and expect trying unsuccessfully for a minimum of five hours in addition to the time between 8 pm and 8 am.

    It is our guess your were most likely not on one of or pages. When sending notes reporting problems please include all information, including the address of the page you were on when experiencing the problem. See:
    http://www.janyce.com/gene/newbie.html and
    http://www.janyce.com/misc/newbie.html

    Thank you for writing

    She responded:


    From: (confidential viewer)
    Received: from tulnas1-34.ionet.net
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    ; Wed, 3 Dec 1997 01:36:07 -0600 (CST)
    Date: Wed, 3 Dec 1997 01:36:07 -0600 (CST)
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    X-Sender:
    X-Mailer: Windows Eudora Version 1.4.4
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    To: "Janyce.com, Inc. Yakima WA USA"
    Subject: Re: Problems
    X-UIDL: d834c91cb834370a507621061c4df704

    I am sorry to say I was on YOUR PAGE, and I would not try any page for five days before I got it. I used my button to click and it DID say it was not on that server. SORRY I could not give you the exact site as they were too numerous. THANK YOU>At 10:26 PM 12/2/97 -0800, you wrote:
    >>Nearly a dozen sites I clicked, said not on this server. Is something >>wrong? Thanks.
    >>You don't say which
    <snip>

    Having received no information, we attempted to make some guesses as to what her problem might be.

    She was not only not thankful for our attempt, but started shouting at us, as well. She appeared to be so "hot under the coller," that she mis-read "five hours" to be "five days."

    From a webmasters viewpoint, this is a perfect example of how not to get a very busy webmaster to help you. This "lady" may have had an argument with her husband, was having "a bad hair day," had a pounding headache, or was ready to shoot her computer with a gun like that guy in the paper last Spring.

    But to have this kind of attitude is to have most webmasters just throw her e-mail in the circle file along with all the e-mail ads that waste our time.

    We didn't doubt she was having problems, but she was also refusing to give us even one address to check out. To this day, we have no idea where she was having her problem.

    We have all been where this lady was. We all talk to our computers. Most of us swear at our computers at one time or another. And that is an interesting delema, because computers do exactly as they have been told. And it's people who tell computer what to do.

    She was mad, angry and very unhappy and shouting at us, while being totally uncooperative. She was mad because we weren't putting out the fire, but at the same time, she wouldn't tell us where the fire was.

    Problems are sometimes hard to track down, even for the most experienced person. But in all cases, the problem has to be defined before it can be solved. We still don't know what this person's problem was because she wouldn't be cooperative; and choose instead to stomp her feet and yell and screem. Maybe that works in her home, but it won't work on the internet.

    We were a little unclear on one thing that could have been confusing if this viewer was more of a newbie than she wanted to admit: There are two address bars on most browsers that are not using "frames." The first address bar is on top and tells you where you are, or, if you put an address in and hit return/enter, will take you to a site.

    There is another address bar at the very bottom of older browsers and will usually say "Document Done" or something similar. If you place your mouse cursor over a link (without clicking), the address of where it is going to send you, will appear instead of the "Done."

    What this lady didn't understand, we think, is that the links she was trying to get to were probably not on our domain, and would have shown up this way had she known more about what she was doing.

    We want to know about these problem links too, as we don't want dead links, but it is beyond our power to do anything about someone elses pages that aren't working or have been deleted or moved.

    You can be assured of one thing that this lady ignored:

    WEBMASTERS WANT THEIR PAGES TO BE AVAILABLE TO EVERYONE
    - otherwise, there is no purpose in spending the large sums of money and time necessary to maintain a site. Most Webmasters will do everything in their power (and within their time constraints) to help you with your problems, if you have a humble and polite attitude.

    Be humble and polite; observe the Internet "Rules of the Road," and you might be surprised at what lengths a webmaster will go to, to help you.

    Act like a spoiled child, and no one will help you.

    If you were the webmaster, how would you have replied to this lady ... if you replied at all?

    We decided on a bitter-sweet reply. Here is what we wrote back:


    You appear to be very upset and for that I apologise. I did the best possible to determine your problem considering you supplied no particular information.

    Here you seem to be angry and upset, and I still have no particular page or links to check.

    I did not, nor do I now, imply you were not telling the truth when you say you are having problems, but you have given me absolutely nothing to go on; like even one link that is not working for you. As mentioned in my previous e-mail we have 134 web pages and around 1500 links. I am sorry, but it is impracticle to hand check each one of 1500+ links.

    Considering the lack of information you have supplied, I spent and am still spending considerable amount time trying to help you. My hands are tied. You have cried fire! but twice in a row failed to say at what address the fire is.

    I can do no more to help you as I have insufficiently developed my mind- reading capabilities.

    May your evening get better and your communication skills improve at a faster rate than my mind-reading improves.

    BTW, again assuming you are having problems with one of the Root Diggin Departments, (you have never said), the first six departments are not only working, but appear to be being delivered at a faster-than-normal speed.

    p.s. are you aware that using all upper case characters is considered to be shouting on the internet and is very rude? I will give you benefit of a doubt and assume you didn't know any better.

    You also might consider a little reading comprehension study. I said five *hours* after 8 am, not five days. That is because most servers don't have someone on duty all night long (although we do), and most servers close down at eight pm., therefore it is being thoughtful to give them five hours (after 8 am) to identify and fix the problem prior to reporting it. (when it is a large-scale problem as she suggested.)

    There are two other solutions: One is to become your own server, that way you will know that everything runs smoothly and perfectly. The other, is to not bother with imperfect electronics and equipment that is constantly malfunctioning and wearing out, and get your information from the library.

    It's all rather silly to get in a dither about, don't you think?

    The following morning this lady replied:


    From: (confidential viewer
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    by mail.mail.somewhere.net (0.0.0/0.0.0) with SMTP id ABCDEFGH for
    ; Wed, 3 Dec 1997 13:53:22 -0600 (CST)
    Date: Wed, 3 Dec 1997 13:53:22 -0600 (CST)
    Message-Id: <199712031953.somewhere.net>
    X-Sender: somewhere.net
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    Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii"
    To: "Janyce.com, Inc. Yakima WA USA"
    Subject: Re: Problems
    X-UIDL: 6bc5dd523adb83ec9c1b8f28536fb12d

    Thank you for your respones. Yes I am aware all caps are shouting, your letter was quite rude. When I wrote you< I thought I might be helping to let you know about the problem. As I said I would have to repeat my steps to tell you but they were links off the main page best I remember. However, I will not waste my time as even your response this time seems quite rude to me.

    Three e-mails later, she still has not told us the address of the problem page, the location on the page (or the link name), and has admitted to shouting at us and being rude. She is obviously too lazy to retrace even one of her steps in order to give us the information necessary to solve her problem.

    Instead, she chose to spend more time complaining than it would have taken to give us one problem address. She makes it clear that she will continue to be rude and uninformative.

    This person has presented herself in an extreemly arrogant manner, while it is very obvious she has much to learn about how the Internet works, how her computer works, how her software works, and generally expected Netiquette. Five years ago she would have been totally ignored and ostracized by most everyone on the net.

    As a result of all the above, we have placed her e-mail address in our e-mail filter to automatically send her e-mail to trash, so that she will no longer waste our time and insult us in the process.

    We do hope that whatever is really troubling her, improves.

    We are grateful that this person has provided us with something we could not have done as well, without her help . . . that being to provide us an excellent example of complaining instead of cooperative informing. Thank you "Jane" for setting an example.

    NOTE:
    Janyce.com has a fair number of visitors at any given time. We received no other complaints during or within twenty-four hours of this person's reported problem. This is not to suggest she wasn't having trouble. But it does suggest she was doing something wrong or not doing something she should have done.

    We depend on you, our visitor, to let us know of problem links. But if you don't give us enough information to find the problem, you are wasting both your time and ours. When done correctly we a very thankful for your help in reporting page problems.

    If you are not sure if it is your error, our error, or an error by one of our linked sites, DO CONTACT US, but explain that you are not sure where the problem is, and give us all the vital information. And, surely, it's not asking too much that you be polite and courteous.

    The moral?
    You always get more help with honey, than you do with a sour lemon.

    So, Don't be like this arrogant woman.

    Thank You,

    Janyce.com, Inc.


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